One of the topics this morning on the radio (while driving in to the office) was…
“Do you remain friends with your exes?”
I do…in most cases. I am a relationship whore…I have been in relationships constantly since HS. I have hardly had breakups that was so terrible I felt we couldn’t be friendly. One ex in particular has been my best guyfriend since we broke up…we don’t call and text each other all the time, because lets face the facts his ex and my ext did not care for that. So it was more like when we need each other we know we are there. Now that we are not attached anymore, we talk more frequently, check up with each other via text, FB, etc. Its funny because all of his exes hated my guts, mind you none of them ever met me…yes I know ladies hard to hold a candle next to the one who stole his purity 🙂 but give me a break…that was eons ago. His last girlfriend was the only one that did not have a problem with him being friends with me. Other than him I am not quite sure I am friends with anyone else…not because of anything in particular, just because we lost touch.
My most current ex…we have to be friends, we have two girls together…even though at times I wish I did not have to speak to him at all. He would be the one that I would never speak to again. We did not break up on bad terms…I was pretty okay with him leaving to move back home (NY)…just after he left he decided to show his true self. If he would just be good to my girls I would not be so angry with him. We were together for so long, I know him better than he knows himself sometimes and that is so unfortunate. I just wish he would get it together so we can be friendly…there is nothing worse than parents that can’t stand each other, and I don’t want to be that…I grew up with that and it was not fun.
What do you think, is it possible to be friends with exes?